My Dream Is To Wake Up To This In My Kitchen - January Seraph, Domestic Goddess!

In My Dreams!!! Even January Seraph puts on her Martha Stewart look for this week’s Good Things List.

The Good Things List actually has a new (temporary FEMA home) at TheGoodThingsList.wordpress.com, but I thought I’d paste it here for those of you who feel like the extra click is just too… much… to…. bear…. :-)

A Good Blog To Read

Emerging On The Other Side is the blog written by an overeducated skank (former slut) who is proud of it.

A Good Toy

The Black Label Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo is the best! It seems like a just a pretty little strategically cut out piece of foam with a cover, but it’s sooooo much more! It’s great for people (like me) who have back problems and can’t tolerate a traditional hands and knees position for longer than three minutes. I never ever feel pain (except for the good kind!) when we get out our Liberator set.

A Good Great Photographer

Lochai is not only a good photographer, but he is a great artist! He is the photographer responsible for the image at the top of this post! I recently did an interview with Lochai on Catalina Loves. This bit is From his bio on his website Kirinawa.com:

Lochai is an award winning photographer who’s work appears on gallery walls as well in fine art publications & coffee table books. He “shoots for the walls & not the computer screen”. Presently he has his work on display at the Leather Archive & Museum in Chicago, for sale in brick & mortar galleries from Key West Florida to Cyber fine art galleries based out of London as well on many private collectors walls. His images, rope art & interviews have been published in The British Journal of Photography, Secret, Skin Two, Bizarre, Prometheus, Cherry, A Magazine, Fetish Anthology, Extreme Anthology, New Times and in his own fine art books. His work can also be found on numerous websites from around the world. He is one of the founding directors of PAG, the Photo Artisans Guild, in West Palm Beach Florida. He as also the co-founder & co-curator of the Traveling Erotic Art Show which spent 2 years touring the US.

He feels that the best stories to tell come from the heart and everyone has something hidden that is bursting to come out. “I feel I can touch something inside the heart & head of each person who views my work. For me, I see the real person when I create my images. The real person comes out thru their alter ego.” Starting in Mid June he will be teaching along side David Lawrence & Bobby Knight 3 day intensive workshops on the art of fine art fetish photography. For more information go to http://prophototours.com/

Being an educator & student of bdsm and fetish, Lochai knows how to bring out the look of hidden desires in his models & shows “real” emotions to his audience. He is considered an advanced rope artist who tours the country teaching rope bondage to kinksters from all walks of life & both rigs his own models for his photography as well as for some of the top photographers in the world. “The Art of The Art” is how he looks at his bondage images & he loves to share his knowledge.

On the Bondage side… Lochai has been a student of Japanese inspired rope bondage since a very early age. He has been educating the rope bondage minded in South Florida for the past 8 years as well as across the country for the past 12. He is one of the founding members of the Traveling Rope Troupe comprised of riggers and bottoms who perform theater style aspects of their bondage art as a lead into a series of hands on classes. He can be found on occasion binding beauties and creating living art at local fetish events as well as major exhibitions. “I use the body as a canvas & rope as the medium in creating my art”

A Good Band

I’m partial to this band because it’s my very good friend’s band. Your Dirty Habit is club/dance music and it never leaves my playlist. On their site at Myspace.com/YourDirtyHabit, you can grab the Live Summer 2007 Live Mix - DO IT! I love it!

A Good Pay Site

Backdoor Bondage is the site that belongs to Sgt. Major. His scenes are some of the hottest I’ve seen, ever. Maybe it’s because I’m such a fan of Claire Adams and I’ve seen two scenes with her it them - one where she was being punched in the ass and another where she’s completely suspended upside down being erotically choked. Either way, yum yum.

A Good Webmaster Resource

Kinky Dollars is Kink.com’s affiliate program. We have had great success monetizing our blogs with Kink.com. Click on the little link and you can sign up for your own account.

A Good Non-Sex Science Tattoo Blog

My friend, Zetar, passed this blog along to me and I just have to share it with everyone else. I normally don’t like tattoos, but these tattoos are right up my alley. Nerds meet Ink - Ink meet Nerds. It’s Carl Zimmer’s Science Tattoo Emporium. Frequently when graduate students finish their doctorate (or even Masters) they get a commemorative tattoo. No, not an “I love Betty” tattoo, but cooler. Take a lookee.

A Good Corsetry Site

By now everybody knows that I love corsets. love Love LOVE them! My dream is to have a corset custom made by Isabella Corsetry. Here is some information from her about page:

Isabella Corsetry makes corsets for women, men, and even children (no waist reduction of course), as well as custom bridal gowns, vintage inspired dresses, costumes, and undergarments.

Each corset made by Isabella Costumiere is individually patterned to each customers own measurements . Since no two bodies are exactly the same this means you will get a corset that fits YOUR body. I use a rather long list of measurements and double check each pattern to insure the perfect fit. For long distance customers I can construct a muslin mock up of your corset and mail it to you to try on in the comfort of your own home to make certain your corset is just right. These are inlcuded with every overbust corset.

Well, there you have it - a few new Good Things for you to check out. I’m getting such a backlist that I’m considering doing The Good Things List twice a week instead of just on Saturdays. What do you think?

Sgt. Major And Claire Adams In A Hot Erotic Choking Scene (Breathplay, Suffocation Bondage, backdoorbondage.com)

This fetish blog loves hot choking. Backdoor Bondage and Sgt. Major have redhead fetish model Claire Adams suspended upside down, helpless. At His whim, He grabs her tender throat and squeezes, bringing Claire deep into subspace. Suffocation bondage is taboo, but it’s undeniably sexy. Visit Backdoor Bondage if you like your breathplay with some discipline. Enjoy.

BDSM, Redheads, Corsets, Collars, FemDom, Strap-Ons, Mz. Berlin, Satine Phoenix, Wax Play… the list goes on and on this week!

[The Official Return of The Red Hair ::wild applause:: Photo by Altered Aperture.]

Well, it’s official. Every Friday I’m going to do This Week In Kink for you. I’m not only going to include our blogs, but the blogs of my friends, as well. I’m also going to just pick the top TWO posts instead of THREE because the list is getting a little long. As usual, please let me know what you think.

Catalina Loves:

Catalina Says:

The Momme Domme - From Professional Mom(me) To Professional Domme

Corset and Collar:

Breathplay Fetish Blog:

Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com):

Marky D. Sade’s Sexy BDSM Blog:

Mz. Berlin’s Blog:

Atlanta Bondage:

Thursday’s Child Has Far To Go:

Kinkerbelle:

Curvaceous Dee:

So there you have it. This Week In Kink with a few new friends on the list. We’ll see how big this list grows!

Naked Gord Ties Up Claire Adams In Hot Breath Play Bondage Scene (nakedgord.com)

This fetish blog loves Naked Gord (nakedgord.com) for its innovative bondage and restraint techniques, and its unrelenting support of all things fetish. Fetish model and Dominatrix Claire Adams submits to Mr. Gord in this hot scene.  Although a powerful femdom, Claire Adams is a wonderful submissive with the right person, as seen here. Gord covers her mouth, utilizing breath control and suffocation bondage, making her pierced pussy drip. There is nothing more beautiful than a good dom/sub dynamic, and that’s what you’ll find on Naked Gord, or its sister fetish site, House Of Gord. Enjoy.

It’s a Banner Day for Breathplay (Breathplay.info)

Special Thanks to my friend Zetar for making banners for Breathplay! Please take one and put it on your page. Let me know and I’ll link back to you.

You Can Breathe Easy - I’ve Got Your Sugasm Right Here

[photo by erocrush]

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #135? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Tantra is work and a two way street
“Tantra is hard work and is not all light and orgasmic play.”

Nyotaimori
“She smiles wantonly, but says nothing.”

Submit
“But when you’re really attracted to someone, and part of that attraction is to their dominance, it almost gives you a second wind for pain.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Discussing a lifestyle event with strangers

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

BDSM & Fetish
53 Days
‘Braking’ His Bottom - F/m Spanking Pictures
Careful, You May End Up In My Novel
Cerebral Trainee Subject: Susan Part 2
Dinner at La Domaine - Reality
Dreaming of the Queen
The intricate natures of men and women.
More than a little bratty
Mrs.Kink’s Strap-On Fantasy
r’s naughty thoughts on squirting
Sadistic Moments
Spanking Sex
Venus 2000 / Milking Machine
Vignette of a Real Life Session

Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-My Girlfriend’s Unhappy Without A Female
The Clitoris: A Users guide for submissive men
Faking? Who are you kidding him or yourself?
How To Pick A Dildo
Sex Dream Analysis: The Panty-less Cowgirl
Starting Your Own Sex(y) Blog
What Kind of Sex Do You Like?

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Anticipation
Carpet burns on her knees
The Chocolate Lovers Part 1
First gay, forever gay
Hero Undone
Insatiable.
Senses
What he remembers…

Sex Work
Sex Workers In The Myths

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Asian MILF gives perfect lickie suckie dickie
Catalina Loves Freckle and Cuff HNT
The Corset That Started It All
Fetish Model Anna Rose In The Perfect Ballet Heel Fetish Picture
I can’t decide
Intimate Moments with Annette Schwarz
Nasty webcam babe bucking like a porn queen
Sexy Little Thing -HNT
Sunny Leone: Showing Off Her Nice Body and Boobs
Victoria Valmer is simply too good to be true
Video: Fresh Out of the Shower

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Ava Rose is Carolina Jones
Bondage Threesome With Sara Faye, Amber Rayne, And Device Bondage

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
How to masturbate, v4.0
I am a masturbator
Reading Sex
Sex as sport, part 1
She’s On Top
Skin — Part I

Breath Play Fetish Movie: So Low - Autorotic Self Asphyxiation (Video On Demand, Suffocation)

This fetish blog loves breath play, breath control, suffocation bondage, erotic choking… you name it. Well. My Video On Demand Theater has a movie for those who love a little edgeplay. So Low is an all girl masturbation movie, in which the women all use various means to control the flow of oxygen to their brains while they pleasure themselves. Mika Tan, Ariel X, Lexi Bardot, and Nikki Nievez all show how to make sex more intense, and the orgasms more pleasurable. My Video On Demand Theater has 50,000 movies, from vanilla to bondage to fetish, all at your fingertips, and ready to be viewed on your computer. Enjoy.

Sabrina Fox Choked While Forced To Cum On Sex And Submission (Fetish, Breathplay, Bondage)

Originally Posted On Marky D. Sade.

This bondage blog loves nipple clamps. Sex and Submission (sexandsubmission.com) uses clamps, rope, and Mark Davis’ cock to dominate Sabrina Fox. She also gets choked and slapped quite a bit during the scene, something I find sexy as hell. Catalina loves getting choked when I fuck her, and when I top her, I tend to slap her face as well. Good stuff. Sex and Submission features shibari rigging, and nipple torture as the top of their features, but the selling point for me, are their live shows. Members can login and participate in a scene. That’s crazy hot. Sabrina Fox can also be found in my Video On Demand Theater, for those of you who are smitten. You can watch her in full length movies, right on your pc, and even pay by the minute, if you’re so inclined. Enjoy!

Madison Young In A Submissive Latex Femdom Scene On Wired Pussy (bondage, fetish, wiredpussy.com)

Originally Posted On Marky D. Sade.

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This bondage blog LOVES Madison Young. This week she’s a submissive latex maid on Wired Pussy (wiredpussy.com) getting the forced orgasm violet wand treatment from her Mistress. I love Madison Young as a submissive, and I love her as a Mistress. She’s yummy, smart, and crazy beautiful. I have a weakness for green eyed redheads, as my wife Catalina has those traits. Wired Pussy is one of the best bondage sites I’ve seen. The forced orgasms from the TENS units, violet wands and E-stim toys are intense, and real. Wired Pussy puts on live shows for their members, in which you can login and participate in the scene. If you want a larger portion of Madison Young (and who doesn’t), you can find her movies in my Video On Demand Theater. It’s easy to use, and you can pay by the minute so…. you know.

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My Wife Loves Erotic Choking And Breathplay (Catalinaloves.com)

Originally Posted On Catalinaloves.com.

 

 

Catalina loves Choking

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Lately my interest in breath play has increased to a level I’ve never experienced before. More and more I draw closer to the line, and more and more I am more interested in finding it. I remember first getting into the scene and finding out about asphyxiation and thinking to myself that there was just no way that I was going there. (Of course, by now in my life I have learned that few things are out of the question if I wait long enough.)

Several months ago I met someone who talked to me about his experience with a girlfriend he choked regularly. I started to fantasize about it, thinking of what it would be like to be up against a mirror with my husband’s arm around my throat, watching us as the room gets darker and the stars come out. Then, I saw a video of his, and watched with big, wide-open, eyes as he reached around and choked her until she fell limp under him, and I had a new fantasy to develop and enjoy.

Being very open and honest in our relationship, my husband and I talk about these kinds of things. Sex, fetish, deviance… all normal topics of conversation among my contemporaries. So it’s not an uncomfortable thing for me to bring up. It came up naturally in conversation while I was perusing my porn theater (I know, I love porn, too). One of the videos I clicked on ended up being a bit of a surprise. I thought I was going to see a run of the mill MILF fucks two younger men kind of movie, and ended up watching a “younger men choke MILF while they fuck her” kind of movie. Surprise, Surprise. I confessed to him that I’ve been doing it to myself in a limited way with my collar (for which I was spanked later). He cautioned me, making sure that I knew what I was getting myself in to, and we discussed the topic thoroughly (and I suggest that anybody getting into breath play do just that - not just consent, but informed consent is needed for edge play.)

Since that discussion he has slowly and carefully brought me to that place I was seeking, and continue to seek. My favorite memory being that the last time, when I was riding him, his arms out straight, hands around my throat, feeling my body heavier and heavier, relaxing into his hands and onto his cock as I came. I can’t wait to feel his hands on my neck again. Just a brush of his fingers as he brushes the hair from my neck makes me instantly excited.