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Strap On Play Is Not Just A Fetish, It’s Fun!

Catalina in Corsette Harness by AlteredAperture.com

Catalina in Corsette Harness by AlteredAperture.com

This is the second strap on harness that I’ve reviewed for New Toy TuesdayThe Flame Harness Kit was the first.  I have to say, of the two, this one is my favorite.  In fact, of all of the strap-on harnesses that I’ve tried on over the years, which is probably more than the average girl, this is my favorite.  Now, it’s known that I have a little fetish anyway for corsets on women.  I have a blog dedicated to that (and collars)The Corsette Harness is then, the perfect harness for me because it has the sexy lace up corset factor with the fun of strap on sex.

The image of the Corsette Harness that is on VibeReview.com isn’t quite exactly like mine.  Mine is simply black, my preference, simple elegance.  My other preference for strapon play is to remain feminine while crossing sexual boundaries.  To be a beautiful woman with a cock can be a huge turn-on for the right man (or woman).  To play with a strap on with a man doesn’t have to be a humiliation, D/s scene.  It can be intimate, loving, and just as sweet and sexy as honeymoon sex.

In my professional career as a dominatrix, strap-on sex takes on a completely different vibe, but most of my readers aren’t professional dommes, so I’m going to stick to this subject in strictly the context of a personal relationship. The word pegging doesn’t suit me, because I see it as a power word.  Turning my man over on his tummy and pegging him doesn’t really fit in my relationship with Marky D. Sade.  When I think of strap on sex with a man that I love, I think of it as another way of sharing intimacy and pleasure.  It’s just “sex”.  It’s another option on the drop-down menu of our sex life.  It’s definitely different, there is a palpable difference in the energy in our bed, but it still is just love and sex. It’s another way to explore as a couple.

Now, I feel badly because I’m leaving out the ladies.  The fact is, I am a bisexual girl.  I enjoy using a strap on with women, and I know several lesbian couples who own a very impressive collection of strap-on dildos.  The fact is, they are fun.  It’s not that lesbians want a “man”, but they want their woman to fill them up, to give them that fantastic feeling that only cock can give you.  I don’t remember the exact quote, but I do remember once reading one of my favorite feminist authors write something along the lines of, “Just because I want to feel a cock in my pussy doesn’t mean I love men…  it means I love the feeling of having my cunt filled completely the way that only a cock can.”    I’m sure she was more eloquent than I, but you get the idea.

Ultimately, if you’re like me and you want to explore with strap-on play, but you don’t want to look like the big, bad, sadistic domme, then this is my pick.  It’s soft, velvety, pretty, corsetty (It’s a word, I just said so), and feminine.  Undeniably feminine.  Look at that image of me above and tell me it’s anything other than feminine.  I dare you.  It’s not only feminine, but I have my collar on.  What a conundrum.  Am I Domme or sub?  Neither.  I’m just sexy.  Strap-on sex can be what you make it.  It can be about domination and/or humiliation or it can be about hot and kinky, but loving sex.  It can be both.  It can be everything in between.  You already have dildos and vibesTry something new - be adventurous.  Carpe Noctem!

It’s Time For Some Good Things on Breathplay.info

"Catalina's Penthouse Bondage", Rigging and Photography by Ms. Nikki Nefarious

"Catalina's Penthouse Bondage", Rigging and Photography by Ms. Nikki Nefarious

This week’s Good Things List is packed full of as many good things as I could find for you.  Some are free, some are not.  Everything on here I hand-picked myself and I recommend.  It’s not bullshit, it’s not clever advertising, it’s just that I’m an opinionated person and I think that people should know about the good things that I find.  That’s all.

A Good Blog To Read

Naughty Secretary writes a very hot blog.  She is a natural born writer, it just pours out of her and what she ends up with is eloquent and perfect every single time.  She caught my attention and now we are close.  I consider her my Naughty Secretary, as she has taken on the position willingly.  I’m not just sending you there because NS is fucking hot, nor am I sending you there just because she wrote this post about me, but it certainly didn’t hurt her case either!

A Good Dildo

I’m way into glass / pyrex dildos these days.  I talked before about the Cyberglass Felicity.  This time I’m recommending the Pleasure Bump.  They are a really nice quality for a really nice price.  I was going on and on about the Cyberglass Felicity with a friend of mine who said, ” I love that glass dildo.  Most glass products are so expensive, but this one is inexpensive, yet feels like some of the higher end glass dildos.” So there you have it, two kinky women agree these dildos are the way to go!

A Good Quickie

Mz Berlin is a friend of mine, as you know.  She’s sexy, she’s intelligent, she’s dorky, she’s funny, she loves Lolcats, and sensory deprivation with her Dom, The Mad Scientist.  She also has a little clips store that is well worth your time.  Of course you can see porn for free, duh.  I’m not stupid.  I know this.  You can also eat for free if you want to dumpster dive.  This is the equivalent of eating in the restaurant rather than digging through the scraps.  Take your pick and give a click.  It’s a mixture of content from her younger days and also current content that she creates herself.  And as she says, “I made it just for you.”

A Good Calling Card

I really need to have new calling cards made.  Badly.  So does everybody I know.  Lately it’s been the topic of conversation amongst my friends.  When Thursday’s Child suggested Moo Cards, I instantly knew I had to pass that site along in the Good Things List this week.  It is definitely where I am going to order my cards from (payday…  payday…)   Oh, by the way - I get nothing from them for saying this - I just think their site is very cool.

A Good Deed

Now you can do a good deed and get off at the same time!  It doesn’t really get better than that.  Seriously.  Take a look at “Adopt a Child” by Sinless Touch.  I’m not affiliated with them, but I saw a press release on AVN (Adult Video Network) recently and looked into it and it’s the real deal.  It says on their site:

During checkout, you have the option to round up your purchases and donate electronic “spare change” to a charitable cause.  One of the reasons that people don’t donate is because they don’t have enough time, so we have tired to make it easy for you.  During your checkout you decide how much to round up your total, and the donation is included in your payment.
With your generous donations, we have committed to adopting children worldwide. We will maintain a profile of each child and their life for all to follow and see how we are all making a difference.

A Good Rigger

A rigger is a bondage artist.  S/he ties knots intricately for BDSM scenes using Nawa Shibari as well as other bondage art techniques.  Professional riggers are employed by companies like Kink.com and often are themselves players in the scene (take Claire Adams, for example).  Some are just there to tie up the willing victim.  Some are there to create bondage art for bondage art photography.  Ms. Nikki Nefarious was voted the #3 Rigger in the 2008 Bondage Awards.  That’s right, my Nikki, the genius behind Altered Aperture, the award winning rigger ties up Catalina all the time.  How fucking lucky am I?!?!  Nikki’s recent separation from Social Kink has made her more available for freelance work.  Now’s your chance!

A Good Way To Distract Yourself

I might be the last one alive to have signed up already for Twitter, my profile is CatalinaLoves, but I’m now officially addicted.  I even have the little Twitterfox plug in for Firefox and now I can play with all my blogger friends and fellow kinksters and perverts all day long while I’m supposed to be working!  If I could figure it out, I would add a little Twitter widget to Catalina Loves, but I haven’t figured it out yet.  I could also, apparently, get updates on my cell phone, but again, not quite that cool.  Funny, I can tell you how to write code, but I can’t get Twitter technology to work.

Well, that’s about it - anything more and I’ll just be looking for good things.  These are all good things that I’ve found, stumbled upon, or was pointed to.  I’d rather have a short list of good things that are really good than a big long list of crap I hunted for on Friday night at 9:33 pm (the current time here in Charlotte, NC).

Just a little shameless self-promotion — I’d like to think that my blogs are all good things, so just a little reminder to take a peek.  I also just started writing at Trufetish.com and I will contribute on the blog at Into The Attic as well.  Soon all of the best sex bloggers and erotic photographers will collaborate on a very big project I am managing - so keep an ear out for news about that!  And now, it’s time for my date with MDS.

Amazing Gas Mask Fetish Rope Bondage Picture With Two Fetish Models (Rope Rookie, Shibari)

This fetish blog loves Rope Rookie (roperookie.com). They make gas masks sexy. Amazing fetish photography, japanese rope bondage, and beautiful fetish models. You can’t go wrong. It’s a really unique site in a sea of porn. Check out Rope Rookie. It’s a rich archive of bondage photography.

Gas Mask Breath Play And Forced Orgasms On Wired Pussy (Satine Phoenix, Suffocation Fetish)

From the blog of fetish model pornSLUTkitty Satine Phoenix.

Satine Phoenix is the sexiest fetish model ever to wear a gas mask.  Wired Pussy (wiredpussy.com) has her in a lesbian femdom scene, where she’s bound, teased, and forced to cum over and over. All through the power of electrostim. Using electricity to forced orgasms is what Wired Pussy is all about. It’s crazy sexy, and Satine Phoenix has done plenty of sessions to share with you. Enjoy.

Medical Gyno Fetish Scene With Madison Young On Sex And Submission (Bondage, Forced Orgasms, Latex)

This fetish blog loves Madison Young. In this medical gyno fetish scene from Sex and Submission (sexandsubmission.com), Madison Young must wear a latex hood, a Martin collar, and is subjected to a rigorous medical examination involving electro-stim, forced orgasms, cocksucking, caning, and lots of fucking. I’m impressed by the level, and authenticity of the fetish aspect of this essentially bondage scene. Sex and Submission is really outshining the other bondage and fetish sites at the moment, and anything with fetish model Madison Young is a guaranteed sexy time. God, I love redheads. Enjoy.

Fetish Photographer and Japanese Rope Bondage Master Lochai’s Pledge Drive

Become A Patron Of The Arts!  Support Lochai!!

It’s no secret that I have a ridiculous crush on Lochai, and maybe a part of it is because I fell in love with his work as an artist.  On top of all that I got to actually meet him yesterday and put my hands on his…  prints (I know what you thought I was going to say!)

I know a lot of my readers are people who share my opinion about Lochai’s erotic and bondage images and also share my belief in supporting the art and the artists they love.  That’s what this post is all about.  Your opportunity to own real art while supporting the arts. It’s a win-win situation.

Lochai has a few gallery shows coming up.  He talks about them in the interview we did recently here. In response to my question about his upcoming gallery shows, in particular the exhibition at the World Erotic Art Museum in Miami Beach, FL, this is what he had to say:

Wow….  To hang in a Museum is an amazing thing.  To hang in this Museum is even a greater compliment in that the owner/curator, Naomi Wilzig, does not normally collect photography & has only just started to.  She has thousands of painting, sculptures and other various articles that have moved her over the years and only a few photographs including ones from a good friend of mine, BT Charles.  She has had many one person displays exhibited in the galleries in the 3 years WEAM has been open, but she asked me to be the first photographer.  I am also a local so this adds to the pride I feel.  Art gallery shows are wonderful but to say that you are displayed in a museum, for me that is something I am very proud of.  I will also have Beach Bound added to the permanent collection. I was also the first heterosexual male artist to have a special “Guest Gallery” show that lasted a year of 30 of my images in the Leather Archives & Museum in Chicago http://www.leatherarchives.org/ which just came down in May.

So now here we are, it’s almost time for Lochai’s big show and now it’s time for me to get involved in the only way I know how.  I’m holding my own Lochai Pledge Drive to help support Lochai’s upcoming gallery projects.  He has never done this before and he may never do this again, it’s truly exclusive (and it will give your grandkids something to bring onto The Antique’s Roadshow!) Think of it is the kinky version of the PBS Pledge Drive - you know, you donate some money and they give you a nice gift to say thank you.

Here’s the rundown - you donate to Lochai’s upcoming shows.  Donations are simple and easy - log into PayPal and use Lochai’s email address (nawalochai@kirinawa.com).  You can even use your credit card.  In return, as a thank-you gift, you receive one of Lochai’s signed prints.  The print you will receive will be chosen by Lochai and is from his award-winning gallery.

Donate $25 and receive a signed 4×6 print.  This is perfect to frame and put on your nightstand

Donate $50 and receive a signed 5×7 print.  This is a perfect size to have on your desk, no?

Donate $75 and receive two signed 5 x 7 prints - a nice little complimentary set for your boudoir.  I love the idea of having two complimentary, beautiful images, nicely framed and hung next to each other.  MDS says he thinks it would be neat if you’re a couple to frame them and then put one on each of your nightstands.  I love MDS.  He’s so clever!

If you donate $75 or more, Beach Bound will be one of the 2 5×7 prints… ;-)

Donate $100 and receive one signed 8×10 print - perfect to hang on the wall.  Actually Lochai gave me an 8×10 as a gift yesterday and it’s matted, framed, and perfectly placed on my desk, so an 8×10 is really a nice size - you can hang it or place it somewhere special.

For donations more generous than $100.00, please contact Lochai directly.   Those donors will be considered sponsors and will not only have their name associated with the show as a sponsor, but as a thank-you gift will receive a signed 5×7 Beach Bound, as well as a signed, limited edition print (of your choice).  Again, just contact Lochai directly to discuss this option.  He’s a very friendly man!

Kinky Fetish Model Anna Rose In Inflatable Rubber Hood Full Enclosure Breathplay Bondage

This fetish blog loves Anna Rose. She’s a slave girl, she’s a pony girl, a fetish model,and a Gord girl. In this image from Slave Girl Anna Rose (alterpic.com), we see her in stockings, shackles, a beautiful corset and a full enclosure, inflatable rubber hood. The sensory deprivation fans should take note. Her content is incredibly sexy, kinky, and innovative. Anna Rose. You should also visit her pony girl site. Enjoy.

January Seraph Is A Hot Femdom Dominating Jade Indica In Lesbian Latex Role Play

Originally Posted On Marky D. Sade’s Bondage Blog. Lovingly reposted here.

Goddamnit, this is hot. One of my favorite fetish models, January Seraph has a new femdom site. Inescapable Bondage (inescapablebondage.com) her newest site. January is a sweet person, very smart, but with a tenderness that shows through, even when she is a domme. This isn’t to say that she’s not bad ass. She is, but her style is still feminine, and graceful. She doesn’t feel the need to become a stereotype when being her strong, sexy, assertive self suffices. Anyway, this is just a quick post, as a means to introduce you to Inescapable Bondage. I’ll do a full review later. Enjoy.

Fetish Model Kali Kane In Latex Forniphilia Scene On House Of Gord

This fetish blog loves the House Of Gord (houseofgord.com) for its pioneering innovation in the fetish world. Kali Kane is dressed up like a latex pony girl (lots of pony play on House Of Gord) but is strapped into a wheeled contraption, rendering her a piece of furniture (forniphilia). Gord attains complete dehumanization. After a humiliating ride around the Gord campus, Kali Kane gets her tits squeezed while helplessly bound. This is deep fetish stuff. Enjoy.

Mz Berlin Held Under Water And Forced To Cum On Waterbondage.com

This post is from my friend Mz Berlin’s own blog. She wrote about her shoot for Water Bondage.

No, it’s not a sci fi channel original. I (the fabulous Mz Berlin) am submerged in a tank filled with water, for purposes of bondage. That’s right. I don’t fuck around. Water Bondage is one of the neatest, most unique, and innovative bdsm sites I’ve come across. The thing about Kink.com, is that they are totally safe, sane and consensual. They tied me up and hosed me down. It’s good stuff, and I really like this one.