The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #121? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
The Ache of Desire Unsatisfied
“J groaned in my ear, and I nearly pulled down his zipper then and there.”

Unexpected
“Tingles of electricity were set coursing up and down that side of my body.”

Part(y)ing shots
“I placed both my hands on the tiled wall in front of me, clammy and cold, holding myself up.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
The “Best way to make him felt hot”

Editor’s Choice
Who Is A Sex Worker?

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

BDSM & Fetish
The administration of pain
Calm
Cock Blogging
Cuckold
Expect the unexpected
Happy hunting
I got quoted in Bitchy Jones!
A Lying Husband’s Spanking and Mouthsoaping
So Hard It Hurts
Vegas Squeeze Toy

Sex Poetry
Lick
The Sweetest Fruit: An Ode to Cunninglingus

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Navigating the Shoals of Infidelity
Silent Sex
Statute of limitations for rape
Tales from the Floor: Pure Njoy-ment
What is fasionable today?
Why Christianity hates sex (possibly)
WWYD: Presidents Day Edition

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Action Girls’ Latest Erotic Photo Galleries
The Beauty Of Nature
Hot Wax at LSM with Madeline
Mizuki Horii
Nikki Nefarious Has Taken, And Modeled, The Hottest Photograph Ever (Altered Aperture)
Redhead Submissive Tied Up In Box (Fetish, shibari, catalinaloves.com)
Suzie Carina - Hotel Room
Vivid.com: Briana Banks, Monique Alexander, Nadia Styles & Sunny Leone

Sex Work
Catalina loves Couples (D/s)

Sex Advice
How to Bend Over Your Boyfriend and Make Him Like It
The Ultimate Sex Position?

Erotic Writing and Experiences
After the gaurd 2
Blue Air
The Cam Lover screwed a hot black escort in London - Part 2
Catalina loves Great Cookies
Eternal Kiss…An Erotic Paranormal Tale
The magic dinner party
Excerpt - The Party Crasher
The Naughty Dentist - Part One
Phantom Stirrings
The therapy session

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Blog Contest Teaser
Harmony Rose Dominates Glory Hole Perv And Fucks Him With Strap-On (Bondage, Femdom, Captivemale.com)
Ron Jeremy Reviews: Souja Boy

Originally Posted On Marky D. Sade.

This bondage blog loves Catalina (catalinaloves.com). This photo was taken by Nikki Nefarious, of Altered Aperture photography. Catalina is my wife, soulmate, best friend, professional domme, and my little submissive girl. She’s my world. She’s, as I write this, at Nikki’s house, having more pictures taken. Yay, my fetish model wife!

This fetish blog loves Foot Fetish Friday, and this fetish blog also loves Catalina Loves (catalinaloves.com). Not only is Catalina sexy, kinky, naughty, and yummy… she happens to be my wife. That’s a pic of her foot, that she took at work. Those toes, in black hose (stockings, really, but it rhymes) got me off hard yesterday. She’s a treasure, and my very best friend. It’s great when true love, and true friendship coexist in one relationship. Yay. Go to her site.

[Originally posted at Catalinaloves.com]

Lately my interest in breath play has increased to a level I’ve never experienced before. More and more I draw closer to the line, and more and more I am more interested in finding it. I remember first getting into the scene and finding out about asphyxiation and thinking to myself that there was just no way that I was going there. (Of course, by now in my life I have learned that few things are out of the question if I wait long enough.)

Several months ago I met someone who talked to me about his experience with a girlfriend he choked regularly. I started to fantasize about it, thinking of what it would be like to be up against a mirror with my husband’s arm around my throat, watching us as the room gets darker and the stars come out. Then, I saw a video of his, and watched with big, wide-open, eyes as he reached around and choked her until she fell limp under him, and I had a new fantasy to develop and enjoy.

Being very open and honest in our relationship, my husband and I talk about these kinds of things. Sex, fetish, deviance… all normal topics of conversation among my contemporaries. So it’s not an uncomfortable thing for me to bring up. It came up naturally in conversation while I was perusing my porn theater (I know, I love porn, too). One of the videos I clicked on ended up being a bit of a surprise. I thought I was going to see a run of the mill MILF fucks two younger men kind of movie, and ended up watching a “younger men choke MILF while they fuck her” kind of movie. Surprise, Surprise. I confessed to him that I’ve been doing it to myself in a limited way with my collar (for which I was spanked later). He cautioned me, making sure that I knew what I was getting myself in to, and we discussed the topic thoroughly (and I suggest that anybody getting into breath play do just that - not just consent, but informed consent is needed for edge play.)

Since that discussion he has slowly and carefully brought me to that place I was seeking, and continue to seek. My favorite memory being that the last time, when I was riding him, his arms out straight, hands around my throat, feeling my body heavier and heavier, relaxing into his hands and onto his cock as I came. I can’t wait to feel his hands on my neck again. Just a brush of his fingers as he brushes the hair from my neck makes me instantly excited.